The double edged sword that is moving

Here in lies the problem when you move: people come out of the woodworks trying to hang out and have their last supper with you.  Then, you get sad because these folks are your friends and you probably won't see them for a very long time, even though its been a really long time since you've seen them anyway and you've been living in the same place. I propose it is better to slip away unsuspectingly as to avoid the lasts and sad goodbyes.